It was very confusing for me. I had experienced primal emotions under many dodgy circumstances and here I was with this woman and I became very nervous. This was what got me very intrigued and I started to study this subject matter.
God made us in his image and intercourse is very much a part of the bargain but this has been misused and abused like many other beautiful gifts from God. This was meant to spiritually Bind two individuals together, the ultimate covenant between two individuals.
The very act involves two individuals stripping themselves bare which symbolises vulnerability, it involves secrecy between the individuals and the act itself involves the Male Phalus going into the Females Vagina cavity which proofs bonding of two individuals and finally, at the climax the male releases his fluid, the sperm and this mixes with the females seminal fluid. This represents a blood covenant which spiritually binds them. Both fluids have been medically proven to contain blood in them.
Now shut your eyes and imagine how many covenants people have inadvertently entered to?
God intended this to be the ultimate bond between a man and a woman. The act is pleasurable and the climax is divine. This was God's way of truly uniting two lives into one. The only time their spirits are vulnerable to each other and their souls rejoices and the bodies rejuvenates. Sex is not a choice in marriage, it is essential. The Bible says both parties must agree before going on periods of abstenance to underpin its importance.
Sex is not meant to be used as a weapon of manipulation as often wielded by married parties to their peril.
As relationships progress, one of the things that tragically disappears is intimacy often lost in throes of raising children and earning a living. This and money issues are top of the list of marriage wreckers.
Sex outside marriage is a sin and often lead to many soul ties but in Marriage it's divine. Just because we are Christians does not mean we can't talk about Sex.
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